If you’ve ever served on a Homeowners Association (HOA) board, this will likely resonate: tempers can flare, boards can be divided, and community engagement can suffer. These dynamics mirror what senior HR leaders often face when balancing governance, data, and stakeholder voice.
A recent experience on my HOA board brought this challenge into sharp focus. A significant decision on our $23K capital project had stalled. The board was split, personal preferences were starting to overshadow objective assessment, and the input we had wasn’t broad enough to support a long-term decision. Low engagement had been the norm for over a decade or so, so relying on a small group didn’t feel responsible or sustainable.
In the middle of the back-and-forth, I made a quick call. I expanded the outreach beyond the advisory committee and opened the poll to the entire community. It wasn’t planned, and it wasn’t announced ahead of time—and the board wasn’t sure what to make of it at first—but the situation needed clarity backed by real data.
The results quickly validated the approach.
The Strategic Approach
1️⃣ Identify the root issue
The real problem wasn’t disagreement—it was the lack of broad, reliable stakeholder input.
2️⃣ Expand engagement strategically
By moving beyond the small committee and surveying the entire membership, participation increased to 85%, a dramatic shift from the long-standing 16%.
3️⃣ Let data clarify the path
The expanded outreach produced a clear preference (48% vs. 23%), creating a defensible and transparent foundation for the upcoming formal vote.
4️⃣ Present the business case
I consolidated the findings alongside current project financials, including the existing $900 buffer below budget, framing a clear, balanced picture for decision-makers.
5️⃣ Influence with integrity
Despite initial concern over the impromptu polling, the board recognized its value. The recommendation honored the community’s direction while reinforcing the board’s authority in the formal decision.
6️⃣ Deliver sustainable alignment
The board aligned around a decision supported by data, strengthened by engagement, and grounded in a process that can now be repeated for future issues.
🎯 The Impact
✓ 5x increase in community participation
✓ Decision aligned with stakeholder preference
✓ Fiscal clarity strengthened
✓ Trust improved through transparent, data-driven engagement
✓ Repeatable strategic framework established
💡: Why It Matters
Leadership decisions—whether in HR or in community governance—hold up best when three elements work together:
- Business needs (fiscal responsibility)
- Leadership alignment (governance and authority)
- Organizational voice (engagement and adoption)
When one of those is missing, decisions feel forced. When all three are present, decisions last.
This experience was a reminder of why I’m passionate about work that blends HR strategy, data, and organizational alignment. It’s not just about solving the issue in front of you—it’s about creating a process that strengthens trust and supports better decisions going forward. Plus, boosting stakeholder engagement through the roof!
About the Author:
Michele Carpenter, PHR SHRM-CP is an experienced human resources leader who supports organizations in strengthening talent practices, improving engagement and retention, ensuring compliance and building sustainable cultures. She is a passionate enthusiast of all things HR and digital technology. Read full bio here.


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